It it that time of the year to come up with resolutions and then try to stick to them. Most resolutions are broken early in the year and mine were no different until 12 months back. I wanted to give up shopping, which I thought was tough for me as I used to go shopping a lot and I surprised myself with how well I stuck to it. It was so good in the first 10 months that I gave myself a couple of cheat days. Dot worry, it was not breaking the resolution, it had done its job of getting me out of shopping for stupid stuff and getting things that I actually need.
There are many lined up for next yr, one I actually started from today given how I abused my body this weekend with unnecessary overeating :) But I am not here to talk about them, they will be discussed with close friends to keep me in check. The easiest way to keep up to a resolution is to discuss it in public and make it so known, that you will be reminded of them very often.
This resolution is very important, the top one to stick to. I am writing it down to remind me every time I'm here and stick to it.
Today, I was reminded of something stupid I am doing. Fighting to get back into my life, but the problem is that I am fighting with the one to whom I want to return. That is actually the stupidest thing to do. Fighting will just make it worse, why would anyone want to return to someone who always fights :) Goobe naanu!
So here is my resolution, I will not fight! not just that, I will show empathy and care, ill show love and try my best to listen and understand. And to make sure I am on track, I will take feedback every time, improve myself and be worthy of the time spent with me.
This is probably the hardest resolution I have ever thought of but given how much I want it, I am motivated enough to do it. This is not a stupid dream which I am ok not coming true. I have multiple concrete reasons why I want it so bad and innumerable instances of bliss that I crave making it a no-brainer.
Wish me the best to stick to this resolution and guide me when I slip :)
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